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Timothy Williams: Male bgd*, widowed, never divorced, celibate, single, over 60, straight, preacher of the Full Gospel: pursuing the righteousness and holiness from the Living God. (bdg: DNA by God’s design)
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Women are different from men. Yea, I know, duh.
If woman have a “fling”, or sleep around, it rewires the brain to that new norm of cheating.
Men’s brains become re-wired to remain faithful if the intimacy in marriage continues.
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guys aren’t interested but guys aren’t interested when they’re 22 and 25 and 27 and 30 and all the way up through now because they’ve seen what’s happened to their older friends they’ve seen what has happened in men’s communities they see what happens in the divorce courts they see what happens in society so before they even have a chance to go looking a lot of guys are saying now I know the math behind this I know what happens and I’m out so there’s some there’s some science guys take a look at some of this stuff if you want to dig a little bit deeper in it I thought it’d be an interesting topic for tonight but I will leave it there because we’re way long anyway guys this is better bachelor I’m Joker and remember when a guy says I’m out or I’m not interested or you you’ve got to crazy a past well now there’s science behind it and now maybe maybe people can understand a little bit better why why a man doesn’t want the leftovers he just he’d rather have it first place or no place at all… Better Bachelor
I have here but here’s the whole science that they talked about is that multiple partners by both parties don’t really end up doing very well the divorce rates are higher the satisfaction in future relationships are not as much however because men primarily have this wired into our DNA to try to go out and have as many sires or sire as many offspring as we can it’s kind of already in our DNA to do this and there’s actually it appears to be overrides in the brain that will help a guy bond to one person that he becomes close to the female of almost all species but also women are not naturally designed to have so many partners because in before the the invention of the pill women would get pregnant and they would not have a way to if they didn’t have a male or a village or someone to protect them and provide for them while they were in this state there was a real danger that not only she but her offspring offspring would not survive so they were more careful to try to make sure to get the best guy they could get both DNA health strength prosperity whoever could take care of them and their young the best and that would they would try to get that one male to stop being with many and just be with her but if she was successful in providing him the intimacy that he needed and he felt started to feel close to her and bonded to her there was a chemical reaction that would help him bond to her but women do not have this because they weren’t designed to just freely go about like men do and so they don’t have many of the science biological wiring to help them rebound with a single individual thus if she gets in the habit of partner after partner after partner in short-term where they’re meaningless and there’s nothing behind them the chemicals will actually rewire in the brain to say this is normal and this is what you should be doing then when she decides to be with just one partner or settle down that desire to keep going and finding other partners and feels like normal to them it feels like this is what is expected and it’s not a conscious thought it’s the chemical wiring in the brain they don’t have the backup system of the bonding doing it one individual like the man does that’s why many men can be playboys still find a wonderful woman decide to settle down and have a family and not wander so long as their needs in the bedroom are being met this isn’t in all cases but it’s primarily it seems to be the case because again men were hardwired for this however when a woman does the same there isn’t that re reuptake of the oxytocin and some of the other wiring that happens to help that woman bond to the man in the same way which is why many times it is said that men will always love women their woman more than the woman will love a man even if he’s the only woman even if he’s the only man that she’s ever been with it’s designed so that if he were to not survive or not make it or not be a suitable partner anymore she can shift her allegiance over to someone new that provides the things that she needs for her and her offspring and can care for this person not to the same degree as the man does her but to some degree so long as he provides what she needs for her and her offspring it’s kind of really interesting and again I’ll put these all down below but I thought I’d put the science of this out there so that when when many you know when guys get into the when we talk about pair bonding and why it matters with a number of partners that someone’s had this is the science behind it now… Better Bachelor
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You can just skip the science and obey God.
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